I've never really followed X (nor Twitter), Bluesky, Instagram, TikTok, etc. so I basically live under a rock. Sometimes I ask dumb questions to try to understand people a little better. Apologies if my questions inadvertently offend anyone. I mean no harm.
You say you're bad at explaining things, but I think you did a decent job explaining Lemmy culture. If you go against certain dogma — even if you're right — you'll catch a lot of unexplained, seemingly-irrational, downvotes.
I'm not much of a social media guy, so when I first joined Lemmy, I found this confusing. I suppose I still do, but I just accept it and move on. That's just how it is here.
I'd bet that this comment will be mostly downvoted. However, after posting it, I will spend exactly zero seconds worrying or wondering about it 🙂