Local cafeteria put up a sign that the fish contains bones. I asked about the obvious, someone returned it asking them how the heck he was supposed to eat that, cause you know, it had bones.
I've been to fish restaurants in the US and literally got served breaded fillets. Kinda like fishsticks, but more expensive. Same thing for shrimp, no heads, seldom tails.
The population that is used to eat fish in fishform and shrimp in shrimpform is just very low.
I've always done dry in lugs. I do make sure my threads are really clean. I don't think that anti seize is that bad on a bolt that can withstand a lot of torque. Just make sure you apply a thin layer on really clean degreased threads. Don't plaster, use a torque wrench. Usually anti seize is applied in areas where bolts aren't very accessible or rarely removed. People used to put them on spark plugs, but that is no longer recommended by most manufacturers.