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𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her]

@ dipshit @lemm.ee

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    lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month

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  • This is it. It's really easy for cis people to talk about trans issues like they are nothing because they don't experience them. I should know. I used to be like that before I knew I was a trans girl, and then I eventually came to realize why it hurt so much when my egg broke and I came to be in that position.

  • So long and thanks for all the Fish

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  • Thanks, it wasn't easy, but I did it eventually 🏳️‍⚧️

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  • Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

    If it wasn't clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying "I'm not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but..." is the equivalent of saying "I'm not racist, I have black friends". I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

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  • It's sad. I'm really going to miss this place. I migrated to lemmy.blahaj.zone. I hope I'll continue to have great experiences there.

  • alternatives to lemm.ee?

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  • I chose lemmy.blahaj.zone since most of the communities I participate in are there and they have been nothing but kind to me. I highly recommend it for other queer people who want to have a peaceful community free of transphobia.

  • alternatives to lemm.ee?

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  • This you?

    I think they were talking about people like that, people like you.

  • The lemm.ee instance will shut down at the end of the month, where should the community move ?

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  • lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I've participated in their communities and they've been nothing but nice to me.

  • Meta (lemm.ee) @lemm.ee
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    So long and thanks for all the Fish

  • How's your week been?

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  • I'm doing pretty good. I found a new therapist and I've been seeing her, though I'm not 100% sure yet if I trust her. She is trans too though so that's a good sign I guess. Also I've been feeling a lot more calm lately, I'm not sure if it's because of HRT or things going well but it's nice.

  • Assigned Cock at birth

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  • I don't think mine is, she certainly doesn't bother me. Two things about being AMAB that I actually kinda like are my mustache and my genitals.

  • Assigned Cock at birth

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  • Aww dang it, it was only after I posted this that I remembered the alternate meaning of ACAB. I thought it was just funny and relatable at the time since I'm a trans woman who feels that part doesn't invalidate my identity.

  • The Loving Places!

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  • How does my home instance lemm.ee fare? Are they a good one?

  • Male rule

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  • Makes sense to me, AMAB these days has little to do with maleness, it just describes if someone was born with a dick and balls, that's how they decide "It's a boy" when the baby is born anyway, even though they might be dead wrong 🏳️‍⚧️

  • Male rule

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  • That's what I did as well, just because god or whatever higher power gave me a penis doesn't make me any less of a woman.

  • Trans Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Assigned Cock at birth

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Male rule

  • Transfem tomboys rule

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  • That seems shitty (also FYI trap is a nasty word). I'm not doing that at all. I try and be very clear that I'm a girl. A masculine girl who likes sports, cars, and getting dirty but a girl no less.

  • Transfem tomboys rule

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  • It means AMAB. Best way to remember is that trans terminology describes identities we identify with, or direction of transition. So trans women are women, and transfem (transfeminine) means feminine or feminizing.

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    We're a rare breed I guess

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Transfem tomboys rule

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    "politics" rule

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Trans Tomboys Unite!

  • Happened to me

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  • I never feel bad for correcting them when they self-incorrect themselves. I tend to be more on the aggressive side when someone gets it right the first time but then goes "sorry sir". One time I went off on a waitress for doing it, and she looked so scared and deeply regretted it, she looked like she was going to cry. After the meal when she brought the check she apologized profusely for misgendering me. So I think being a bitch about being misgendered is sometimes a good thing. When I've been nice people are pleasant but end up forgetting. But when I'm a bitch, they remember.

    It's like spritzing a cat's face with water to get them to stop doing that thing they shouldn't be doing. Unpleasant but necessary.

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Happened to me

  • My current experience dating as a trans woman

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  • I don't mind. I like all kinds of women, cis, trans, tops, bottoms. I just like women.

  • Transfem tomboys are so underrated

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  • Transfem tomboy power 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Transfem tomboys are so underrated

  • What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

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  • She absolutely would 🩷 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Reflecting on past mistakes

  • Chat @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

    lemmyverse.link /beehaw.org/post/17199836
  • Beehaw Support @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

    lemmyverse.link /beehaw.org/post/17199836
  • AskBeehaw @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee
    Serious

    Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

    lemmyverse.link /beehaw.org/post/17199836