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Saraphim

@ Saraphim @lemmy.world

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  • ELI5: What is scat? The internet one.

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  • Scat (musical) - the bee bop beeping boo jibberish people sing in jazz music

    Scat (scientific) - animal droppings (poop)

    Scat (internet/modern) - people who participate in sex involving poop as part of their kink.

  • There was an attempt to give a speech

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  • I’m so torn. On the one hand this guy is a massive piece of shit and he deserves to be publicly ridiculed and shamed. On the other hand, getting old is scary as fuck and I feel some way about mocking someone about a clear neurological issue.

    This whole thing just gives me the ick.

  • What are the coolest coins in regular circulation from around the world?

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  • I love the look of pesos. They look like Canadian coins but with more badass.

  • What temperature do you keep your thermostat at?

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  • 24 Celsius, which is about 76.5 f. My husband disagrees.

  • Is anyone else having trouble giving up Reddit due to content?

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  • I’m using Memmy and I can search.

  • I am new refugee to lemmy

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  • This guy with actual answers over here.

  • I am new refugee to lemmy

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  • I feel like the general vibe is “have fun, and don’t be a piece of shit”. I’m enjoying my refugee status so far

  • Who else is a little bit stoned rn?

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  • I wasn’t before but you’ve inspired me. I’m easily influenced.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • What the fuck is wrong with you ?

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • Not sure why you’re getting downvoted here. This is accurate with every word.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • I have talked to him. He acknowledges he does it but doesn’t know why. I’ve explained how stressful it is for me, and he says he understands. I’m bitter because it annoys the fuck out of me, not because he’s trying to “share” with me.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • “You’ll see! Just come here!” 80% of the time it’s nothing at all. The other 20% it’s something bad involving blood or damage to our house or something equally awful and devastating. It’s horrible to do the execution walk to see which one I’m going to get. He even once needed stitches and was bleeding everywhere and wouldn’t tell me what he wanted, just that I needed to hurry and he needed a hand. I had to experience the big reveal and see the blood everywhere before he told me he needed a towel from inside the house where I’d just been.

    Even emergencies he won’t tell me. “I’ll see” when I get there. Surprise!

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • This isn’t investing in time, thought and energy though. This is random impulsive things, regardless of if I’m at work, or on a call or just trying to wind down after a 12 hour day. I work a full time job and a side gig, and he is, at this point, semi-retired. I do the majority of the housework and childcare jobs. We contribute to our household income at about 5:1. Im already exhausted, but I feel like he wants me to spend any free second I have entertaining him. He has no interests except his guitar (which he gets his fill of at work as a teacher about 25 hours a week) and his PS5. So if neither of those are entertaining him, then I’m expected to provide entertainment for him. I’m really just tired and frustrated. Have you ever had someone who literally just wants to fill up every spare moment you have with something they need before ? There are days where I’m cleaning the kitchen at midnight and he’s getting snippy because he’s been waiting forever for me to get finished to come and play this game so he can watch (he makes it sound like it’s really a favour for me because he’ll rub my back halfassedly while I play). He’s not investing in anything, and he’s got a lot of energy to spare. I don’t.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • Oh come on that’s not fair. What I’m talking about is not a healthy amount. It’s an excessive amount. Sometimes it feels like I’m a tv set. I’m his entertainment. He even makes me play video games I don’t want to play, so he can watch me play. I love spending time with him but I also value my own personal time. And it’s unfair that I should be spending my personal time doing activities that I’m not particularly enjoying so that he can watch me do it like a tv.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • I guess that’s what I’m here for, context. I feel like I can’t adequately explain why it’s upsetting when I can’t even explain it to myself. It seems like such a small silly thing to object to but it really freaking stresses me out and ticks me off. Sometimes other people’s thoughts help give context to your own.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • This is good. I’m going to try this.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • Hmm that’s part of it. But I literally never know what I’m walking in to. About 2 months ago he was yelling “a little help here. Hurry. I need you.” He said those three things instead of “I cut my hand in the garage, bring a towel because I’m bleeding”. Nope he yelled at me vaguely and then acted annoyed when I didn’t hurry and he was clearly bleeding everywhere and then snapped at me to go get him a towel and move faster because it was an emergency.

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • Oh yes. But he has zero impulse control (because he practices none) so the second he thinks about something he wants to show me he does it again

  • Why does “come here” bother me so much?

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  • THIS! You’ll see. Why ? WHY?? Just tell me