You have the planner and the nucleus. The nucleus is the person that everyone wants to hang out with, usually an extrovert with no planning skills. The planner and the nucleus are natural allies because they meet eachother's needs. So figure out who the nucleus of your group is, be good buds, and plan things out with them first so you know they can make it before you send out the invite.
Then when you send out the invite they'll reply all to say they're coming and everyone else will come. Some groups have multiple nuclei so that's a thing too.
Planner nucleus followers arrangement might make you feel unloved as the planner.... But it's just normal human social structures. Even Nazis had the same setup with Hitler and Goebel, Trump and Miller. Any group you look at has this structure! Secretly without the planner nobody gets to hang out at all so they're the real OG imo. A group with only nucleus-followers is a bunch of people who rarely meet and say "we should do this more often" and then don't.
Extroverts don't gain energy from social interactions. They just have a MUCH HIGHER need for social interaction. So they feel like shit anytime they don't socialize. They also tend to get drained by social interactions much slower.
It's like if someone who was eating only chips for months finally eats healthy. They seem energized because they finally have their nutritional needs met. You'd think "wow salad really energizes them, I usually need more calories to feel energy like that", but it's actually the chips making them feel like shit.
They're not saying this should be banned or illegal. They're saying it's ugly. There is a middle ground between "banning anything I don't like" and "I'm not allowed to criticize the ugliest thing ever made"
This chart is good for hookups. In long term relationships you can negotiate things like asleep and inebriated while sober or through long term safe sane and consensual escalation. Then you get to enjoy things that are hard to enjoy ethically with a stranger. Hell in most kinky contexts most of these are yes and are replaced with a safeword for "no" but you need more trust for that than you can muster with most strangers.
Israel is trying to figure out what victims snitched so they can kill them and their families. They're not stupid enough to think they could win money, they just want discovery so they can "teach those Palestinians a lesson" for speaking to the media.
Israel is trying to figure out what victims snitched so they can kill them and their families. They're not stupid enough to think they could win money, they just want discovery so they can teach those Palestinians a lesson for speaking to the media.
They're usually just trying to remember your name so they repeat it a few times in the first few conversations and whenever they forget.
I used to feel like you to some extent and I realised that it takes me a long time to remember people's names, and part of why I hated hearing my name is because it reminded me that I might not know the other person's name and they might be upset that I don't remember it like they remember mine. That was my "trauma" that made me hate hearing my name in conversation.
Sorry we don't give medals anymore. Last time we gave out a medal to someone, Trump invaded their country and only left when the medal was given to him. Our insurance company just won't allow it anymore.
Of course it would be! Fossil fuels are cheap and easy to extract. Energy consumption is directly correlated to quality of life. You think if there were fewer people they would just say "no thanks, we've had enough material wealth, just leave the cheap and easy energy in the ground, we're good"
What in our history makes you think our resource usage is related to population? You said it yourself that most of the world is living in poverty and needs to increase their resource consumption to get to a decent quality of life. That's clearly one of the things that would have happened with fewer people. The other would be whatever mega yachts would be if the rich were 4x richer..... Maybe space yachts.....
This anti-natalism thing you've got going is really rotting your mind.
Yeah, everyone knows kids cost 4k per year, so as long as your statement is true then..... Wait where is the Disney Land money coming from.... I'm sure it's more unjust subsidies for people continuing civilization...
Every reputable population growth estimate says we reach the peak world population in 70 years at ~10 billion people. We're close to the top and after that it shrinks. Overpopulation is not a significant problem compared to climate change as long as we stop using fossil fuels. Green energy is looking like it's starting to win thanks to... Mostly China making green power cheap.... And I guess Trump making fossil fuels unaffordable....
You have the planner and the nucleus. The nucleus is the person that everyone wants to hang out with, usually an extrovert with no planning skills. The planner and the nucleus are natural allies because they meet eachother's needs. So figure out who the nucleus of your group is, be good buds, and plan things out with them first so you know they can make it before you send out the invite.
Then when you send out the invite they'll reply all to say they're coming and everyone else will come. Some groups have multiple nuclei so that's a thing too.
Planner nucleus followers arrangement might make you feel unloved as the planner.... But it's just normal human social structures. Even Nazis had the same setup with Hitler and Goebel, Trump and Miller. Any group you look at has this structure! Secretly without the planner nobody gets to hang out at all so they're the real OG imo. A group with only nucleus-followers is a bunch of people who rarely meet and say "we should do this more often" and then don't.