You should know that you're presenting the exact kind of attitude that alienates people. The conversation you're now saying has no place for cis men never made any such distinction in the first place. That was something you created to be angry about.
If we discount the misogynistic roots of the comment you originally replied to, we would find a comment that was about the view misandrists have on men. This made no exception for cis or trans men, and in fact, would realistically include them equally, since I'm pretty sure a misandrist wouldn't like a trans man any more than a cis man.
The point is, the aspect of this conversation that you're angry about and gatekeeping over originated with you.
I don't believe the intentions were pure here. This user took a comment about misandry entirely out of context in an attempt to paint another user as a transphobe.
Fr, several years ago, when I got into torrentleech, they absolutely required a modern version of uTorrent, and outright said use of qBittorrent would lead to a ban. Assuming it was a scam by someone who had money to gain from forcing adware like uTorrent on people, I asked about it on Reddit, and no, apparently they were a well-respected tracker at the time. Not to mention the fact that their actual, official guide for getting your ratio up was basically "Go out and harm public trackers."
My favorite part about talking to the extreme left is the way they always seem so in love with the extreme right.
You know the point I lost all respect for the opinions of Lemmy leftists? It's when I got into an argument with the top mod of a major leftist community (who says she's trans in her about page), about the treatment trans people would get under a second Trump term.
Her stance in short? To paraphrase, "Democrats worse than Republicans, who cares what happens to trans people in America, I'm not American." Ffs.
Keep in mind, this is the same dumb fuck that wants the return of asbestos. He has a first-grade level of understanding. To him, dangerous just means tough and cool.
Back in around 2009, I was playing a match of Halo 3 online, on High Ground, and as I left the hole in the bunker wall, someone jumped down and landed on my head, and I went straight through the ground. Never experienced anything like that in the game before or since.
Dam but wide