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Azzu

@ Azzu @lemm.ee

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  • Pokeball

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  • Definitely not just you. But I was wondering why its boner was poking through its pants, even though it doesn't have pants.

  • Japan's historic work ethic is declining—45% of workers admit they're quiet quitting

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  • You're doing exactly as much as required? How rude of you.

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    LibreOffice: We still see people on the fediverse recommending OpenOffice, despite it having year-old unfixed security issues

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  • Setup an autocorrect phrase :D

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  • The will of the people

  • Eurovision 2025 Bans Pride Flags Onstage

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  • Sure, the fans... But the majority of the viewers are people like my parents, who are entertained by it for a week, don't really care all that much about anything but the national rivalry and the cool shows and music, and then it clears off their mind until the next year.

  • Eurovision 2025 Bans Pride Flags Onstage

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  • Lol, no

    Most people won't ever see this news, and even then, many people wouldn't care.

  • hairy situation with dating

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  • The mindset of clinging to this connection just makes it harder, trust me.

    In online dating you have at least a 70% random loss rate that you have no real control over or idea what went wrong. Even in "real" dating, approaching people during hobbies etc, it doesn't work in like 30-50% of the cases where you thought there were sparks.

    I know that it's hard, but you'll find someone again. A blue moon happened once, it'll happen again :)

  • hairy situation with dating

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  • People randomly stop writing. Just let her go and find the next one. Maybe after like a week or two, ask what's going on.

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  • Little common luxuries, lots of nature, lots of silence, freedom from most things. It's a return to a more ancient, simple way of life.

    For some people this represents extreme comfort and serenity.

    For other people they don't understand why you'd give up having a warm shower readily available (or similar things) and are annoyed the whole way.

    Have fun finding out what's yours! :D

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    not a metaphor for anything

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  • Definitely agree. It depends on the situation and context/situational clues.

    Remember that we are talking about a metaphor here, the "actual" situation that is talked about is people calling trans femme people "dude" or "bro".

    I know a bunch of people who really just use these words all the time on everyone and never were they trying to say that a woman they call that is actually a man. I suppose it's possible and happens sometimes, but I imagine it's very rare.

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    not a metaphor for anything

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  • Yep, totally understandable from my side :)

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  • Of course it is okay to threaten harm to people. "Policing speech" is exactly that, "threatening harm to people". If you police someone's speech, the implied threat is something like "if you don't change your speech, I'm going to make your life harder/remove certain benefits from you/reduce your social status", all of which is "harm".

  • ♬ Say it again, y'all ♬

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  • 8BitDo no longer shipping to US from China due to Trump tariffs

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  • I have 2C wireless and there is no Bluetooth to be found.

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    not a metaphor for anything

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  • That's why I wrote my initial comment.

    They both need to acknowledge that they're unreasonable. Dropping the metaphor.

    It's completely understandable that one person has trauma regarding gender and thus unreasonably feels offended by an innocuous word like "dude". And thus, if you respect that person, it's totally reasonable to try to accommodate them and not use "dude" when possible.

    At the same time, the person requesting it needs to be aware that their request is unreasonable in the way that you just described, and thus it'd be reasonable for them to say "please don't say dude to me, but if you can't, it's not that bad because I know this is my issue to be so offended by an innocuous word".

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  • Definitely.

    I just thought it important with my comment to counteract the sentiment of "fuck what the person that is wrong feels". That is exactly what is causing the resistance most of the time. Yes, sure, they shouldn't be saying "dipshit" to that other person. But telling them it's no problem when they themselves know that it's a huge problem for them is just antagonizing them, effectively.

  • Love your fellow humans that just want a working computer.

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  • I think what people mean when they say this is that they are looking for the same price point as the equivalent Windows device... I don't know all these companies but every time I looked for a Linux PC/laptop it was 25-30% more expensive than the equivalent Windows thing.

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    not a metaphor for anything

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  • As I've already said multiple times, that is the reasonable approach. For some reason everyone thinks I'm for the continuing of people being called dipshit in this situation.

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  • that’s solved by them not looking at me.

    That's exactly what I'm saying here. The one that doesn't want to be called dipshit should remove themselves from the situation where they're called dipshit, i.e. cut the person out of their lives.

    I'm not offended, I'm just saying that policing someone else's speech is the same as asking them to leave your general vicinity, i.e. not particularly reasonable.

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  • It doesn't cost nothing though.

    If a person habitually calls everyone "dipshit", they need to pay close attention every time they speak with that person, making sure to think about every word coming out of their mouth and making sure none of these is "dipshit".

    Just try speaking to someone and never using "the" ever, it's incredibly hard. If you're used to speaking in a certain way, it's very hard to change and takes a lot of mental work. And it's ok if it's one word with one person... but what if everyone decides a word or multiple words isn't fine to them? It gets harder and harder.

    This is not a complete non-issue like it's being treated.

  • Dota 2 @lemmy.ml
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    Small bugfix update

    steamcommunity.com /games/dota2/announcements/detail/3875975012177690879
  • Deep Rock Galactic @lemmy.world
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    4min 30sec of leaving no dwarf behind

    www.twitch.tv /videos/2015691856
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    Christmas present for Mason by the official dota 2 team

    clips.twitch.tv /CheerfulFrozenLaptopMcaT-u70lacgn1Q8z8DzN
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    ez 15812 damage with one Burrowstrike

    streamable.com /lyg4li
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    Gameplay Update 7.35

    www.dota2.com /patches/7.35
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    Frostivus 2023 - Big Update Page!

    www.dota2.com /frostivus2023
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    ESL Kuala Lumpur is happening next week, Group Stages from 11th to 13th, Main Event from 15th to 17th

    liquipedia.net /dota2/ESL_One/Kuala_Lumpur/2023
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    Gameplay Update 7.34e and What’s Up Next | Official Blog Post

    www.dota2.com /newsentry/6941797558605834210
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    Gameplay Update 7.34e

    www.dota2.com /patches/7.34e
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    Post TI Roster Shuffles

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    League of Legends finally added an Invoker-type champion to their game :D

    www.leagueoflegends.com /en-us/event/hwei-abilities-rundown/
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    Gameplay Patch 7.34e will be released on Monday, November 20th

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    Jenkins Herald replay review

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    So Eva Elfie (Porn Actress) collected $25k to give to the winners of TI...

    nitter.privacydev.net /EvaElfie/status/1719562658540814363
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    What Yatoro is most afraid of

    streamable.com /h3vcaj
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    Little bit of beef between BB and Azure Ray | The International 2023

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    Zai Interview | The International 2023

    streamable.com /xz8hiz
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    Liquid vs Gaimin - Purge's game-defining Rosh fight analysis (+ player perspectives) | The International 2023

    streamable.com /9xzpvv
  • Privacy @lemmy.ml
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    Is WhatsApp bad for privacy?

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    Just watched Topson play Lich in a pub between TI games

    streamable.com /rrc896