She’s highly abusive, ableist, and tries to convince my sister everyone hates her to manipulate her into either feeling bad about herself or so she’ll have no friends except Ashlyn.
She says she hates Lena but wants to talk to her all the time. She blows up at Lena for petty stuff because of “her mental illness” but hates Lena for having mental illnesses. And her friends think this behavior is OK. They’re so badly abused by her they think it’s okay.
She called Lena a pervert and a creep for trying to make conversation w her.
Also, the first dialogue is on the right because that’s who’s speaking. Considering I draw everyone of the same gender identically, I should’ve reversed the speech.
Like the other comment said, ghosting is not an excuse even with poor mental health. I’m about 6 years older than you and I know if I was having anxiety, for example, I would not ignore or abandon my girlfriend over it.
He can still try to make time for you, even if it’s not a lot, and then explain why he’s been less talkative rather than flat-out ignore you.
However, by what you said, Sam seems to acknowledge that and realizes he was wrong for it. That’s a start.
he also “forgot” about me when he would give gifts to other people, wouldn’t mention me under “people he appreciates” but would mention everyone else, and wouldn’t even tell people abt me.
This concerns me. The other stuff is bad enough even if he acknowledges it but I wouldn’t say he was ever a good BF regardless of mental health from this.
Not only should you wait until his mental health gets better, but for him to mature. He’s probably inexperienced with dating and emotionally immature at just 19.
Hope you find someone else in the meantime 💖 It seems he’s not meeting your needs and frankly wasn’t too loving to begin with. And yeah, try being friends but remember: Just because he’s a good friend doesn’t mean he’s a good boyfriend.
I’m feeling cute, enjoy these pictures I made!! (Seriously, they’re supposed to make you feel better, not be offended)
Hopefully someone makes a AIO then