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-Emma-

@ -Emma- @fedia.io

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🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl (she/her) 🏳️‍⚧️

New account, same Emma!!

old accounts: Emma@kglitch.social & emma@kbin.sh

Let's hope this instance doesn't go extinct like the others!

  • Alexa had “no profit timeline,” cost Amazon $25 billion in 4 years

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  • Even on mbin where I can't see your pronouns, your username itself is Emily. There's no excuse for their behavior.

  • Alexa had “no profit timeline,” cost Amazon $25 billion in 4 years

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  • I'd love to know why you think it's okay to insult her like that.

  • 🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

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  • Hi 😊 Apparently DMs between Lemmy and Kbin/Mbin still do not work, so I can only see DMs from other Kbin/Mbin users.

    I've sent you a DM from my Lemmy account.

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    -Emma- @fedia.io

    Pride?

  • 🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

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  • Sending love and support to you and everyone stuck in Florida ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • 🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

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  • Hiya. It's kinda hard for me to pulll away from Matrix and the friends that I've made there, and I've not been good about remembering to come back here to the fediverse. I really created this thread looking specifically for people to meet offline. If you're looking for more offine friends, you might want to join us on Matrix.

    Also, thank you for saying my name 😊 It feels so nice to see.

  • 🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

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  • I appreciate the advice, but I would sooner harm myself than go back to facebook (sorry if that's too dark). If my choices in life are between being surrounded by friends while all interactions are monitored closely by facebook, or being forever alone and disallowed from human experiences, then there's really nothing here for me anymore. I hope it doesn't come to that.

  • LGBTQ+ @beehaw.org
    -Emma- @fedia.io

    🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

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  • I do advise keeping an eye open for opportunities elsewhere.

    I have been wanted to evacuate soon, but my heart is pulling me in lots of different directions, and I don't really know which path to follow.

    In the meantime, you're not going to be a fan of this advice, but discord is a good place to find communities.

    Yeah, that's what my friend Lacey was telling me. I just can't do that right now. Making these posts is difficult enough.

    Thank you for the well wishes.

  • LGBTQ+ @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    -Emma- @fedia.io

    🏳️‍⚧️ trans girl in southeast Louisiana looking to make friends

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    -Emma- @fedia.io

    trans girl searching for friends in southeast Louisiana

  • Ally in training...

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  • I get the suspicion that some of the more spirited discussions so far came with a tinge of suspicion that I'm one of the bad folks looking to invade spaces and sow discord,

    Yeah, we generally have to have our guard up, especially in these types of threads. I don't know if you're familiar with the "just asking questions" type of transphobe, but it is a very real problem for communities like this one. The topic or phrasing of a question can raise red-flags for sure.

    But I believe that you're being sincere.

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  • For some of us yes, and for others no.

    It's difficult for me to even imagine the complexities of such a world that lacks gender norms. Would there be fewer trans people? Possibly. But in such a world, there would still be trans people like me that feel a strong need for surgery.

    Edit: Forgot to mention HRT, which many of us would still need.

  • TIL lemmy has a traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns community

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  • I'd like to respond to some of the things discussed in this thread, but I don't want to directly reply to anyone. I just want to share my perspective, not argue.

    Transgender is currently accepted as an umbrella term and includes a variety of identities. What these identities have in common is that they are not cisgender. Disagreements about which identities fall under the trans umbrella are really about the specificity of the label itself. Some people seem to want the umbrella to be split into two distinctly different labels, with one being specifically for trans people who seek medical transition.

    It all comes down to the definition of transgender as an umbrella term. Definitions of terms change, and it's not unreasonable to think that transgender may change meaning again in the near future. But right now, "not cisgender" is what defines transgender identities, and that includes non-binary people and trans people that don't seek medical transition.

    As someone medically transitioning by HRT and seeking SRS, my identity is not diminished in any way by acknowledging the validity of other identities. My recent meme explicitly explains my desire for SRS, and there was no push-back. That's because I was explaining my own transition and not attempting to define other people.

    Not all trans people seek medical transition, and that's valid. Not all trans people seeking medical transition want both HRT and SRS, and that's also valid. And what trans people want for themselves can change. It's important that non-cisgender people be accepted as transgender so they can accept themselves. Big questions about possible medical transition can be decided later.

    Our enemies are the transphobes attacking our freedoms. Let's be kind to our fellow trans people.

    ❤️

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  • I'm over a year on HRT and still don't fully understand my own sexuality. Is it attraction to women or envy? Is it attraction to men or a need for gender affirmation? Idk. I just know that I have strong desires and ambitions. 🫠

  • aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]

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  • ❤️

  • aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]

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  • Is that good or bad?

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  • I love buying girl stuff!! Cute shoes, thigh highs, tops, skirts, short-shorts, dresses, bras, panties, I love shopping so much!!

    Shopping feels so lonely. It’d be so much more fun to go shop with friends.

    I want some girl friends!! We could go see movies, go shopping, go to clubs, chat about all the things, It would be so awesome!!

    Life feels so very lonely. I don’t have any friends, no romantic relationship, and no idea how to even go out and find people.

    I want a cute boyfriend!! I want him to **** me, **** me, **** my ****, ***** me, ***** me, ******* *** ****** me!!

    My body feels so foreign. I deeply crave intimacy but my body feels wrong.

    I want bottom surgery!! I wanna be smooth, flat, comfortable, and sexy! I want to feel complete! I want to have a vagina!!

    Surgery feels so distant. I need to find a surgeon, get psychiatrist referral, laser is taking forever, and it’s all expensive.

  • traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns @lemmy.ca
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    aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

  • Trans Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh