You you could do most of that with a raspberry pi5, 8GB. With a whole kit, you can get it for under $250. I'm running 3 at my place: 1 for media (servarr stack, JF, Navidrome, Invidious), 1 for the Fediverse (Mastodon, Piefed, Peertube, WordPress), and 1 for anything else.
Edit: I also missed the part about truenas, but you can still run containers on any other OS just fine.
I mean that, when I'm talking with people from different walks of life in the LGBTQ community, I'm pretty much a basic bitch. And although I'm sympathetic to the struggles of some of my friends in that community, there's an experiential limit to what I can understand.
Out of those two, I would go with Navidrome. Jellyfin is more monolithic of an app, and navidrome (more specifically, subsonic clients) is more Unix-like (or modular). You can't edit the tags as easily as with Jellyfin, but beets works really well for tagging and embedding everything from album art to synced lyrics. Beets has great plugins to do all this, including a web app plugin and an auto update plugin.
Edit: I forgot to mention all the frontend choices. Many frontends work for both apps, but I believe subsonic clients have more options.
I've used Funkwhale, and I really enjoy it for what it can offer (multiple radios, playlists, and libraries for different types of users) but if you're not really willing to share your music in the Fediverse, I'd go with JF or Navidrome.
If you don't really care about an all-in-one media player with a GUI, you could serve your music on gonic and then pick the frontend of your choice. It handles podcast subs, online radio, scrobbling, etc. it also plays well with subsonic clients and beets plugins.
People are just wired that way. I absolutely love burgers, chicken, pork chops, etc., but when I prepare them (especially with pork), the desire to eat them goes away. Certain smells make me gag, even if they're not unpleasant to other people.
I thought I didn't fit a stereotype, but being a light-skinned male making conversation with the LGBTQ community makes me feel like a basic bro. There's a little imposter syndrome with it, too.
An electric grill? That's pretty surprising. I also go for charcoal, but I wasn't aware of the carcinogens. I tend to just use regular charcoal and paper. No lighter fluid or starters, if that's any better.
Kudos for sharing. Before it was called the Man-O-Sphere, I used to listen to Dave Rubin and Joe Rogan. That was over a decade ago. Once Trump came onto the scene and they pivoted hard to the right, I couldn't listen to them anymore.
Most people don't know that I left the Marine Corps an expert rifleman and sharpshooter with a pistol. I really miss hitting the range. It's kind of therapeutic for me.
Man, I wish. After smelling it raw and cooking it, grill or range, it just grosses me out. If I'm waiting for dinner, though, I have the opposite reaction.
Can someone remind the Latino that he's a means to an end and not really in the club?