Most people are not gonna go that route unfortunately. I want to love JF, but the remote access is a big sticking point, especially for non tech relatives.
It bugs me when people just say tailscale like that solves it all. It's very useful and solves a lot of problems, but not all. Unfortunately.
Wait, does emby do remote access similar to Plex? And without VPN like JF? That's literally the only thing keeping me on Plex.