Nah, you good. There's no way for you to know without way too much time investment.
New York, San Francisco, and maybe Chicago have workable systems. Atlanta's right on the edge, I would say. San Francisco seemed the best by far, but it still wasn't perfect. It also helps that San Francisco is tiny. I haven't been to Seattle or Portland, though. Maybe those are better
The smaller cities have super trash transit, mostly because they're too spread out
The devs themselves are fine. It's the leadership that's cancer. Abusive leadership in Korean companies is actually a pretty well known issue. It's just more self-destructive in game companies, which I have direct experience with. So they did a lot to me and my friends. And said friends shared their stories of other Korean game companies.
You're absolutely right to question, especially with my level of anger, but I'm confident this one is justified.