I will also take mid-statement pauses to ensure I use the correct word I am feeling. This makes it look like my speech is discrete, while the general population’s speech is continuous.
if I recall he didn't mention the Autism Speaks video, but her other videos on Autism. Sources should be in the bottom corner of the screen.
here is the timestamp to that section: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDp3cB5fHXQ&t=2594s
in my verbal rhythm i also leave gaps sometimes.