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Seigest

@ Seigest @lemmy.ca

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  • [vent] My annual feeling of extreme loneliness due to lack of romantic relationships and my absolute hopelessness of getting one have begun

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  • Not sure if this will help but here's my take.

    I'm 38 and ace, and I was in a very similar place. Over time, my close friends found their partners, and I ended up feeling even more alone.

    I believed I had to earn a healthy relationship. I thought I needed to get physically fit, pay off my debt, and become "worthy" enough. Thankfully, I found a good therapist who helped me step away from that mindset. Personal goals are valuable, but the truth was that I would probably never feel good enough if I kept tying my worth to achievements.

    At the same time, I was in an aro-ace relationship with someone who was financially abusing me. That situation was a major factor holding me back.

    In the end, the root of many of my struggles was self-hate. It took about a year of therapy to start correcting that. I’m still working on self-compassion, as well as my financial and physical well-being. But I’m now dating someone in a similar situation, and I’m genuinely happy.

    So if you’re open to advice, here’s mine: focus on building self-compassion. You deserve happiness. You deserve to be loved.

  • Critical thinking

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  • How people think I use AI "Please write my essay and cite your sources."

    How I use it"please make my autistic word slop that I wrote already into something readable for the nerotypical folk, use simple words, make it tonally neutral. stop using emdashes, headers, and list and don't mess with the quotes"

  • Avocado toast rule

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  • For free? I doubt it.

  • Yellow Bellied Sapsucker

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  • In Queens park no less. I'd have figured the city would scare off a lot of birds.

  • I got a bunny

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  • Honestly, I'd have so many more if I could afford them.i got some for my friends as well ADHD bunny, ADHD bat, anxiety bunny. They're all great.

  • Mended my pants

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  • Ah, I'm sorry if it seemed like I assumed that. I'm sure he'd have happily taught you these things if his job allowed the time for it.

  • Mended my pants

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  • No point in shaming others for not having a skill. If your sergeant didn't like it they ought to have sat you down with a needle and thread and trained you themselves.

  • Mended my pants

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  • Hiking these up is what did this as well. Losing some weight finally maybe.

  • Canada to cut off electricity to US states: "Need to feel the pain"

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  • Gotta change the National wifi password as well.

  • Canada to cut off electricity to US states: "Need to feel the pain"

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  • Need to scan the border to make sure they are not running an extension cord through it.

  • You Can Buy A Kilo Of Vegan Mini Eggs Online

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  • Removed

    How to buy an ocean

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  • Make it mandatory that all references to the old name reads the new name in all print media.

    Enforce rule in all federal agencies.

    Pay off various groups to demand and facilitate the passing of laws enforcing this rule at state levels. (Deny Federal involvement)

    Attempt to make it a culture norm, and deny any evidence it was ever called anything else. It's un patriotic to call it the old thing.

    Then you have freedom fries... Er I mean the Gulf of murica.

  • Hey! I may be grumpy, and bitter, and lash out at children, and trick people into neglecting God's Word but... What was that other thing you said?

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  • https://objectiveministries.org/kidz/

    I think it was here. But it's either gone now or lost somewhere in the slop. I can't even tell if this real or some kind of satire.

    What is this?

    What should you do if you find an Atheist?

    If you find an Atheist in your neighborhood, TELL A PARENT OR PASTOR RIGHT AWAY!

    You may be moved to try and witness to these poor lost souls yourself, however AVOID TALKING TO THEM!

    Atheists are often very grumpy and bitter and will lash out at children or they may even try to trick you into neglecting God's Word.

    Very advanced witnessing techniques are needed for these grouches. Let the adults handle them.

  • Hey! I may be grumpy, and bitter, and lash out at children, and trick people into neglecting God's Word but... What was that other thing you said?

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  • If I remember correctly this is from a site it gave fursona to other groups they didn't like including Jewish, and Islamic folks. It was an educational site directed to children

  • Choosing pink is chaotic evil?

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  • The older you get the more your going to want that poop command to use on yourself.

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  • FT seems fine for me

  • Tips to keep feet warm?

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  • Honestly invest in good slippers. I got these before COVID and they are hands down one of the best investments ever. since I work from home I just wear them all day. Do they make me look like a geezer, yes. But my feet are cozy.

  • Whould everyone doing nothing be a viable option?

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  • Ah perhaps I'm not used too that where I am. I appreciate unions truly, and belive we need more. But the ones I've been in have been nearly as corrupt as the politicians. Often run by the retired and wealthy making decisions on behalf of those still working. Often bad ones.

  • Whould everyone doing nothing be a viable option?

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  • That whould typically involve unions. No need for them here though.

    Unions are great for a lot of things but they'd be less inclined to help on this as they, don't all support the same parties, and probably dont want their workers to violate any contracts as it would damage future negotiations.

    I think isn't a matter of labour and would be stonger without unions. It needs to be from the people.